Sometimes when I’m with the baby, he fusses (or wails) unless he’s in my arms. That means, one-handed bottle preparations, tooth brushing, sorting the apartment, …you name it.
Much like everyday life with a baby, various life demands have to be balanced or juggled.
Sleep and cleaning.
Self and him.
Work and play(time).
I turned down a great networking opportunity earlier this week. I originally told my dad I’d go with him and then a few minutes later, I told him I actually couldn’t. I’d already made plans for this evening and I didn’t want to spend two evenings away from the baby in one week.
I wondered if I was being a good enough professional after I declined the invite. Pre-baby or pregnant me would’ve jumped at the opportunity but these days, quality time with Sebastian means a whole lot more than any networking event. Still, it had me wondering how exactly I’ll be able to continuously juggle everything. The short, simple answer is: I’m not sure–I’ll just try my best.
I’m quickly realizing that this new stage in life is certainly all about balance, and I’m still learning how to do just that–while still feeling like a good enough mom, professional, wife and so on.
The short answer: I am good enough. I’m more than good enough.
You are definitely enough!!! You are doing great.