Moments of Musing

Our Date

Filed Under: wedding planning //

No, it’s not Wedding Wednesday but since today is the 14th, which is our “monthiversary,” I figured I’d blog about another important date — our wedding date! — and how it came to be. 

What’s in a wedding date? To some, there is much significance. To some, it might be merely a date when their favorite venue was available or that they decide when would like to be married on. To others, like Tim and myself, it is a mix of the two.
 
When Tim and I started thinking of dates we first thought 2015 would be the year but that seemed way too far away. And because I am bit old fashioned, I didn’t want to live together for a long time before our wedding. So, we decided on 2014.  Less than a year to plan our long distance wedding would be difficult so we decided on November, which is before all of the holidays, leaving people little excuse to say they’re busy or poor from buying presents.

After the year and month were decided, next came the day. Originally, we wanted a date with the number 14 in it because we met January 14. However, November 14, 2014 lands on a Friday. That would be a bit difficult for out-of-town guests as they would have to take off at least 2 days from work.

 
So we decided on a Sunday — yes a Sunday, meaning people will have work the next day. But Tim’s family is coming from out town so they would have to take off at least one day of work for the festivities, anyway, and let’s be real — having a wedding on a Sunday is much cheaper than on a Saturday. Plus, now it’ll be even — both sides of the family will have to take off from work (if members of my family so choose).
 
The final decision: November 16, 2014. 
 
There’s still a 14 in the date (in 2014, duh) and the 16th is the last day in January that we’d hung out after first meeting in Las Vegas. It is also the day that Tim says he knew there was something really special about me because of how sad he was to leave me. 
 
To us, it seems like the perfect compromise and we couldn’t be more excited! 
 
. . . Is/was there any significance to your wedding date?

 

Easy Canvas Prints: Review + 50% Off Coupon!

Filed Under: wedding planning //

It’s  that time of the week again — Wedding Wednesday 🙂
 

I just received this beautiful 8″x10″ canvas from Easy Canvas Prints. I decided I wanted a canvas of one of our engagement photos. Since I love all of our photos, the decision of which photo to choose was difficult but I finally chose that one, which is a favorite of ours and among family and friends. (It’s actually a black and white photo but I couldn’t snap a good photo in my living room lighting.)

I absolutely love it and plan on displaying it in our home, and possibly at our wedding! The one tip I think I should tell you all is to flip your photos if they’re vertical — they’ll fit better that way on the canvas. 
 
I highly recommend getting one and if you’re thinking of doing so, today is your lucky day because Easy Canvas Prints has been nice enough to give me a 50% off coupon code for all of my readers!
 
*This post was sponsored by Easy Canvas Prints* 
 

A Blank Slate

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  Color me crazy but I like the idea of the fresh start, beginnings, and a brand new week that Monday brings. I also believe it’s important to start the week on a positive note so the rest of the rest isn’t tainted with negativity.
 
Wishing you all a week of positivity and accomplishments!
 
 

Spendfree(ish) Season(s)

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 This has been my motto for a while now:
 
 
 
Couple regular life expenses, i.e. bills, with wedding planning and I have decided to stick to the motto even more now than ever before. I vowed after Christmas season to seriously cut back on spending. I am proud to report I have successfully done so. Besides the occasional taxi from a night out or snack I’m craving, unless it’s pretty necessary, I have not bought it. I’ve actually had clothing in my shopping cart (with other purchases for my home) and told the cashier I’d changed my mind because I decided I didn’t need the clothes. 
 
You see, I am a firm believer in quality over quantity. Sure, I do have a lot of clothing but I could probably have more. The clothes I do buy though are clothes I know will last me a while (though I am still a fan of F21, which usually isn’t the highest quality). Same goes for shoes and especially purses, which are my biggest splurge. The last anything I’ve bought for myself personally was in November when I bought my Kate Spade purse and my outfits for our engagement photos. I think this is the longest I’ve gone and I am now sort of in a competition –albeit with myself haha– to see how long I can last.
 
. . . As for buying for others, that’s a whole other story. I couldn’t help but buy Tim Valentine’s Day presents. And I can’t help but buy my family and bridesmaids presents, either.
 

Dreams: Scattered

Filed Under: life, positivity //

 
Sometimes I’m hard on myself. It usually simply takes thinking about finances to get me to question all of my decisions. Shouldn’t I be making more money? Should I have taken on law school debt? Was moving 100s of miles from loved ones worth it? Should I have just followed Tim and let him stay in the military? After all… I’ve always dreamed of being able to stay home with my kids (when the time comes).

And then I take a step back. I breathe in. And I remember why I’ve done everything I have. How every step of my life has gotten me here. How I am pretty much on track with my childhood “dream” life timeline. Shouldn’t I just enjoy all of these accomplishments now? 
 
I’ve decided the answer is yes. While I continuously plan for the future, I will embrace my scattered dreams. I will try my best to use them to create the ultimate future I dream of.  It’s okay that I have many different goals that might not seem to match up. Life is for exploring. Exploring new places. New people. New opportunities.


But for now, I will remember that I’m in my mid-20s. Many people have less than I do.  It’s important that I be grateful. And acknowledge that I’m still figuring life out — which is okay. Because really, has anyone ever figured life “out”? Find me the person who has and I’ll give you … all my law school debt 😉
 

 
  Happy weekend!