Moments of Musing

These are my confessions…

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…I love these pink flower-covered sidewalks. I’m just glad they’re not falling by our house because it’s a big mess when combined with the rain. 

…I’m still waiting on the possible Good Samaritan who’s found my lost license to mail it back to me…because I don’t want to pay for another just yet.

…Last week’s chilly and rainy weather was the pits. APRIL showers are supposed to bring May FLOWERS… not more showers, okay?
…The Mr. and I don’t like stepping out in wrinkled clothes. Wrinkles aren’t a good look, especially if you’re getting fancied up (but even when dressed down). Thankfully, the military instilled this into Tim so he always irons his clothes–and if I’m lucky, he’ll iron mine too 😉
…I almost can’t fathom that Donald Trump is the Republican presidential candidate. Is this real life?
…My bump is really growing. Baby L, who’s measuring above average (doc has said maybe that’s why I’m so big), has been moving so much and I love it. I am 8 months pregnant and have just a handful of weeks until the pregnancy is considered full term… I almost can’t contain my excitement! Happy Bump Day!
…We still don’t have a place of our own. Though I’m not freaking out about it as much as I have, it still makes me feel uneasy. My deadline for moving is June 1st because after that, this baby mama is staying put. 
…I’m happy my hubby is almost home. He’s been back home for a sad and unexpected family funeral, only to receive news that another loved one died while he was home. I just want him in my arms safe and sound–I’ve missed him dearly.  
…And finally, the winner of the giveaway is: Patricia B.!  Look out for an email from me!

Linking up with Confessions of a Northern Belle

First Mother’s Day (as a Mom-to-be)

Filed Under: Baby L, pregnancy //

I’ve always wanted to be a mommy. When I was little I was that girl who had a bunch of toy dolls, which I treated like my babies. Before I ever pictured myself as a bride and wife or lawyer, I pictured myself as a mom. 
That’s why this year–and those to come–is so special. The bouncing baby boy growing inside me is making me a mom. He’s making my biggest dream come true. 
I say it over and over again but this whole experience has been amazing–the ups and even the downs. I feel like it’s all preparing me for the selflessness and worries of being a parent. 
The other morning when Tim and woke up and I looked over and said good morning… I imagined what’d it be like with our little one joining us in bed in the mornings. I simply can’t put into words the overwhelming excitement I feel whenever I imagine life with him. 
As for my own mom, she is the type of mom I hope to be: I hope to be as selfless and kind. As supportive and loving. Thank you, Mom for being the best mom for me. You’re going to be such an amazing grandma. 

P.S. Today is the last day to enter the giveaway (see post below) for your chance to win a $75 gift card from PinkBlush. Don’t forget to enter! 

Dressing my bump + Giveaway

Filed Under: Baby L, pregnancy //

I have to admit it’s been tough to see the number on the scale rise, even for the right reasons. Despite the weight gain, I still love showing off my baby bump. Being petite, I prefer clothing on the tighter side so I don’t look bigger than I am. However, finding clothing that makes me feel good during pregnancy has been quite the challenge.

Enter PinkBlush. Not only is the maternity clothing fashionable but it’s also chic. It makes me feel like a beautiful pregnant woman. I feel stylish in the clothing but more importantly, I feel comfortable. Fortunately for my readers who are not pregnant, Pink Blush offers both maternity and non-maternity clothing (plus sizes available), accessories, as well as baby toys and gear.

I’d been eyeing the Pink Blush Maternity line since the moment I found out I was pregnant. Heck, I might have browsed it before I even found out… (I had baby fever, people!) When I saw this lace midi dress in ivory, I knew I liked it. When I saw it in fuchsia, I had to have it. I just love everything about it– the color, the fit and the style. 

My dress for our maternity shoot is also from Pink Blush Maternity but I’m keeping that one a secret for now 😉
Now, one of you can score a $75 gift card to PinkBlush and discover why I love it so much. Just enter the giveaway and check back next Wednesday to see if you’ve won. Good luck!

*This post was sponsored by PinkBlush. All opinions, however, are my own.*

One wedding weekend, three looks

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Happy May! I probably say it every year but this year really feels like it’s flying.

This past weekend, Mr. L and I attended a former coworker’s traditional Indian wedding. There was no shortage of delicious food and fun wedding activities going on. I wasn’t sure what to wear but upon researching online and asking the groom, I learned that modest cocktail dresses and gowns would suffice. As for the traditional Indian attire, especially the embellished saris, they were simply stunning.

On Friday night, we checked into our hotel, got ready and went to the Sangeet. It was a fun dinner party, at which family and friends of the couple dance for them. This is what we wore:

Would you believe me if I told you that dress is a size 2?!
Saturday afternoon consisted of the wedding ceremony. I opted for a bright-colored dress since it was daytime and the saris worn by guests would be colorful, as well. Outfits #2:
And Saturday night was the black tie optional reception. We changed into more formal attire:

I have to admit–getting dressed up multiple times was fun as a pregnant lady. I have always enjoyed dressing up but I was especially happy to showcase my baby bump in something other than leggings or maternity pants and tunics. 
Which look of ours is your favorite? How was your weekend?

Stress-free: the way to be (Part 2)

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This is a continuation of the post Stress-free: the way to be. Read Part 1 here.

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My most mundane stress trigger is probably household upkeep. The laundry piles up. The garbage has to be taken out. The bathroom has to be cleaned. These are the things that bother me most in our household. Again, however, they’re not unique to our household or unmanageable. I just know it’ll only be more of a pain once the baby arrives and all I want to do is cuddle him. So I’m determined to make a schedule with Mr. L so our tasks can be accomplished more consistently. 

The hunt for housing has been a real nightmare. In the very beginning of house hunting, I was feeling optimistic. Then, we went to see houses and that optimism plummeted. When we visited a house I really liked, Tim did not like it. And it just wasn’t the right house for us. So we are back at square one: to buy or rent. Time is ticking…quickly. Stay tuned to find out what we ultimately decide.


In addition to the little things to make each trigger less stressful, I think keeping everything in perspective is most important. There will always be stress in life. But life is too beautiful to worry away. And as Mr. L always says: we will figure it out because we always do. As long as we’re on the same team, everything will be a-okay. 

Have a great stress-free weekend everyone! Mr. L and I are looking forward to letting loose and celebrating at a wedding today and tomorrow.